Saying that women dress up for men is an oversimplification. Saying that people dress up to belong is also. Both women and men dress up for themselves. This is because they feel or want to feel intelligent, successful, credible, holy, peaceful, comfortable, playful, flirty, friendly, outdoorsy, sporty, respected, desirable, confident, young, sophisticated, minimalist, practical, unique, artsy, or worthwhile. Clothes communicate what is going on on our insides.

Women dress up for a multitude of reasons. If a woman were to feel isolated, she might dress up to feel attractive and receive affection that tells her she is worthwhile. If she feels old she might dress youthful. Or she dresses up “masculine” to emphasize her strength and confidence.

Currently I am falling in love with life. These last several months I have been unemployed, healing from a lost relationship, and grasping for my passion. It is an unlikely time to feel the happiest I have ever felt. This is a period in history where people are forging new ways of living, inventing ways to make money from their passions. People are more generous, sharing their skills to help each other succeed. People are beautiful.

(Sigh or puke here. I did a little of both.)

Walking down the street, wearing this ridiculous, billowing neckline, and overly-pink floral print, I am smiling to myself and saying in all seriousness that life is play.

Blouse and skirt: vintage from thrift store (Price: $7)

Sweater vest: thrift store (Price: $1) Brown belt: thrift store (Price: $1.99)
Delicious velvet brown shoes: thrift store (Price: $6) Antique watch: was my grandmother’s Leaves: play (Price: Free)

Thank you Ms. Wednesday for taking these awesome photos.