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“It was one of them days, yes the first Thursday of the new month….” – the opening lyrics of River Forktine Tippecanoe – one of the more compelling of many extraordinary songs on Munly and the Lee Lewis Harlots’ self-titled album.

As it happens, the day I met Jay Munly was the first Thursday of December. Our interaction went something like this:

Me (approaching with awkward slowness and foolish grin): Can I make a request, or do you have a set list that you’re sticking to tonight?
Munly (tall, lean frame bending to better hear my quiet question): Well, you can make a request, but if it isn’t on my playlist I won’t play it.
Me (nervous laugh, still grinning): Oh, that’s fine, I understand. I’m completely thrilled to hear whatever you play. I’m just so happy you’re here.
Munly (accommodating his nervous fan – good man): Just out of curiosity, what would you have requested?
Me: Bird and/or Cat, from your Lupercalians album (duh. Like he doesn’t know which album his songs are on). I really love that album, by the way.
Munly: Oh, thank you (sounding genuinely grateful for the compliment, generic though it was).
Me (feeling desperately awkward but not wanting to part from the moment…this is where I get weird, by the way): I had a really shitty fuckin day today….I didn’t know you were here in town, but a friend of mine called and said you were playing, so I put on my big girl boots and made myself come out for a bit. I’m so incredibly thrilled you’re here. Thank you so much for coming to Boise. Really makes me happy….so anyway, thanks again for being here. I think you’re brilliant….

And with that, before I could catch a glimpse of what I’m sure was an utterly befuddled expression on his wonderfully gaunt face, I ran away to breathe and down a stiff drink. Who the heck talks about her “big girl boots” to Munly? Me….sigh.

Munly, along with a host of other exceptionally talented musicians such as Slim Cessna and David Eugene Edwards, is saddled with the honor of having developed the Denver Sound. This remarkable genre of gothic Americana country has stolen my soul and wrested my heart, and no one renders me willing to surrender soul and heart for the sake of music better than Munly.

During Munly’s set, I stood just to the left of the stage, finding a space where I could experience his sound alone, without the distraction of friends and small talk. How anyone could make a peep during his playing is something I can’t begin to comprehend, yet there were several birdbrains squawking away in the darkened corners of the bar, woefully unaware of what they were witnessing. I think Munly sensed their lacking too – he didn’t play for long. But while he sat upon that black Neurolux stage, I stood fixed to the floor by the humble splendor of his unbridled genius.

Post script: I have always been irresistibly drawn to the banjo. It’s unfortunate that Deliverance has forever marred the commanding beauty of this instrument with ghastly visions of squealing piggies. The banjo possesses a sound that is at once complex and clear. Munly is one of the few modern musicians who has truly mastered its incredible diversity and distinction.

Last spring, my dear manfriend was kind enough to buy me a banjo for my birthday. I can barely play Hot Cross Buns on the beloved thing, but I pluck away whenever I gain the courage to pick it up…..I can play the flute, but it’s a long, arduous journey from wind to string….one I’m happy to take, be it at a turtle’s pace….

By the way, these stunning photographs are courtesy of the magnificently talented Bethany Walter. She slays me with her vision every week.

Jacket: Suede – purchased by my mother in the 70’s.
Blouse: Polyester – thrift store find.
Skirt: Velvet – given to me by Jessica and Kelly, fellow FU stunners.
Boots: Leather – purchased new from Frye.
Necklace/Earrings: Hazel Cox (who else?)

The photographer’s favorite photo of the bunch……….

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K: My mom bought me this skirt six years ago at – get this – Coldwater Creek. I was supposed to be helping her shop when I spied black lace and gunmetal gray taffeta. I’m not sure if my peals of ecstatic praise convinced her to buy it for me, or if I came right out and asked for it. Either way, I wore it once. It was to a wedding with a cream sweater and black tights and shoes. How predictable.

Anywho, having never properly worn it, and having recently acquired a black silk, tiered, ruffled number of similar proportion, and having no money with my boo’s birthday around the corner…
It’s boo’s.

N: After picking out the skirt to wear to a friends play, I decided I needed to pair it with the least-fancy thing I could find…enter crew-neck wool sweater!  I got this 100% merino wool sweater for a couple bucks at a thrift store last winter, it’s supa cozy and looks & feels much more expensive than it actually was.

K: Now you’ve done what I could not, dress it down and make it minimalistic and chic. I love a color palette of interesting neutrals.

K: Did you pick these earrings first thing, or did you try several?

N: You know me too well.  I tried several earrings on before settling on these gold tear-drop earrings from Lucky.  I picked them to match the gold in the belt.

K: Very unexpected. *Polite smattering of applause*

N: At first I tucked the sweater into the skirt before adding this thrifted leather skinny belt.  It was too bulky and the elastic waist-band of the skirt looked cheap.  Keeping it un-tucked also made it more casual.

K: Kitty dish.

N: The tights actually have a nice cable-knit texture that you can’t really pick up in the photo.  I thought the chunky-ness of them set off the formal-ness of the skirt much better than an opaque tight.

These Kenzie mary janes I’ve had forever, but they are still some of my favorites.  I seriously re-glued the soles on about 3 times before paying to have them re-soled.

N: In the days before my big move, Kelly and I spent many hours going through my clothes to decide which ones would make the trip with me.  Since space was limited, I left a box or two behind with her to send to me once the weather changed and she got a good wear out of them. (hint-hint, nudge-nudge)

K: I wore this sheer purple blouse, sheer black hooded tunic and sheer sparkly tights (and a pair of lace-trimmed bike shorts for my modesty) to Story Story Night and Bethany snapped pictures at the Red Feather after party.

N: This blouse features some of my favorite traits that I look for in clothing: it’s sheer, has poofy sleeves, and cinches in at juuust the right spot on the natural waist, so naturally it’s one of our favorite thrifted finds.  I decided to pack a black blouse in a similar silhouette, so boo got to hang on to this one for a while.

K: I got one query that night about why I was wearing my hood indoors. Kim jumped in and said, “It just doesn’t work without the hood.” Why? It just doesn’t.

N: I’ve always paired this blouse with something high waisted, be it tapered pants, hot shorts or a skirt.  Though I’ve had some great outfits with that combo, I love how you layer it over the tunic here!

K: Chandelier earrings, platform sandals and socks – my favorite evening accessories… for now.

When we share, we sing the song  What’s Mine is Yours from All Dogs Go to Heaven while passing rubbery-looking slices of pepperoni pizza.

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I spent the weekend driving through the Badlands of South Dakota at 90 mph in a rented Chrysler and reading Joan Didion’s new memoir, Blue Nights. (Although not, pray, at the same time.) With its sharp, silhouetted hoodoos and arid skies with pinpoint stars, both the moonscape of the Badlands and Didion’s prose induce a similar hypnotic mood: an apprehension of losses yet to come, a hard-edged circumspection, and an imaginative flight from which one is reluctant to return.

Toggle sweater jacket: sleeping on snow (Anthropologie, Boise)

Skirt: Rebecca Taylor (Fancy Pants, Boise)

Salmon tank top: J. Crew (Boise)

Didion’s memoir was occasioned by the death of her daughter in 2005. As the poet Meghan O’Rourke observes in her Slate.com review, Blue Nights is not so much a grief memoir, but a regret memoir: “another thing altogether, a stranger, patchwork beast. It is written by an author with no hope of recovery, who has let go of her magical thinking.”

Badlands by Geof Theref

Handbag: Dooney & Bourke (Dillard’s, Boise)

Jade bracelets: Rangoon Airport (Burma)

I was touring the Badlands by night because I am foolish (a bad, bad place to break down) and because I had a meeting to make with tribal leaders on the Rosebud Indian Reservation, home to the Sicangu Lakota—the Upper Brulé Sioux Nation. A list of notable Lakota Sioux reads like a Who’s Who of heroes: Crazy Horse, Sitting Bull, Black Elk, Red Cloud, and the indomitable Billy Mills.

The reservation is a strange, patchwork beast. I met with highly educated and politically active young Lakota men and women. I also met up with a 61-year-old grandmother who looks about 95 and is caring for her 30-plus grandchildren in a graffiti-tagged house with nothing but plastic tarp covering its windows to keep out the frigid, Dakota winter.

Earrings: Lucia (Park Slope, Brooklyn)

Sage gloves: echo (Marshall’s)

Grey tights: Marks & Spencer (London)

Shoes: Nicole (yard sale)

In reviewing Blue Nights, O’Rourke notes that “writing of regret . . . cannot gesture toward redemption, or undo what has been done.” Amid rapidly changing conditions, there’s a spiritual immutability to the Badlands, the Lakota people, and the steady state of reverence for her daughter’s life that Didion evokes in Blue Nights. Part of letting go of my own magical thinking is admitting that I have regrets about my life; that I could have done things differently.

The Lakota kept winter counts, or pictorial calendars with one picture representing each year. The Lakota call them waniyetu wowapiWaniyetu is the word for year, which is measured from first snowfall to first snowfall. Wowapi means anything that is marked on a flat surface and can be read or counted, such as a book, a letter, or a drawing.

Detail of 19th century Rosebud winter count (Lakota Winter Counts, Smithsonian Institution)

“For everything there is a season,” writes Joan Didion in Blue Nights. “Ecclesiastes, yes, but I think first of The Byrds, ‘Turn Turn Turn.'” If, like the Lakota, I had to choose one picture to embody this entire year it would be driving at night through the Badlands: I can see no farther afield than my headlights; strange, daunting formations surround me—and yet, I persevere.

 

 

Photos by Bethany Walter

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